Lost Divinity: Nishikawa

𝐴𝑐𝑡 𝐼: 𝑁𝑒𝑤𝑏𝑜𝑟𝑛 𝐿𝑖𝑔𝒽𝑡
A new light breathed its first, a little flutter of life that was his to protect – a heartbeat that came to life in the same instance as his own. A little creature; pure and innocent – a benevolent soul left to his care, his protection. The year was 1267 and war was brewing on the horizon; a terrible war, a terrible struggle of greed and power. This little light shown as a beacon amid the darkness of the time, and he descended upon it with all the whimsical grace granted his kind by the great Amaterasu.

The Lady nearly lost her life birthing the young Prince, whose wails kissed the air at the first light of dawn and he hovered over them, a shimmering blaze of Divine favor. Hirohito they named him, beneath the swirling golden eyes of his Kirin Guardian, for surely he would grow to become great and benevolent.

The second child born to the Daimyo, and his fist son, he was perfect. He was a delight for his elder sister of nearly seven years, little Yoko with her bright eyes and ebony hair. He remained at their side, a protector and guardian as little Hirohito grew, well and strong and kind as the fluttering light of his birth had promised.

It was a splendid time, these years, that flew and crept by in equal measure – and the children grew and grew with warm golden eyes ever watching after them.

𝐴𝑐𝑡 𝐼𝐼: 𝑊𝒽𝑒𝑛 𝑡𝒽𝑒 𝑆𝑎𝑘𝑢𝑟𝑎 𝐵𝑙𝑜𝑜𝑚𝑠
Bliss followed them, a dream of this world of humans and mortality – a beautiful world of beautiful, but transient creations. A world he marveled at, a world told to him in stories by little Yoko who was no longer so little. Indeed, the sweet child had blossomed into an elegant young woman. Demure in her way, soft spoken, graceful in manner – entrancing even to such a creature as he, a pearl held close to even a Divine beast’s heart.

She sang for him in the hours between study and duty, curled against sun-warm scales and threaded fingers through the great white mane sprouting from his nape. She spoke to him of all things, for there were no secrets between them. – and he, in turn, confided his inhuman heart in her. Gave into her care something which was never his to offer, but that she owned, held with such care, regardless.

It was a love such as no other, indeed, such as he would never see again.

How treasured she was, his beloved Yoko, how she shown so brightly in this world – and whom was ever courted by Lords and Princes of foreign Provinces. Ever did she turn them away, beg and plead with her father not to force her away – for what would be left of her heart should she be parted from it?

None of them knew, so they believed. How could any believe such a tale? Wondrous as it was, enthralled as they were with such a dream – it could never truly be, but how they hoped.

She refused to sing for him one evening, deep in the Autumn, the shoji doors thrown wide and smell of jasmine tea perfuming the air. He believed something amiss, perhaps a wrong he had committed somehow – but no. She smiled at him in such a way that he melted, ducked chin away from such reverence.

’In all these years, we have shared all of ourselves. No secret lies between us… except that of your name. Tell me, beloved Kirin, what it is you are called?’ Her secret smile, curled sheepishly – and he was trapped within her twinkling stare. ’A name even mortal tongues can speak.’

She laughed, a bell-like sound that thudded in time with his heart – racing as it was with this last transgression. Yet how could he deny her? She whom he would lay down his very essence for?

’Nishi.’ He whispered to her, Nishi, born in the western sky on the eve of her beloved brother’s birth.

How sweetly she repeated his name, a song on lips never meant to own it – but she did, and Nishi lost a little more of himself to this all-consuming love.

It was perfect, and tucking his chin atop her shoulder, he naively believed it would always be so.

𝐴𝑐𝑡 𝐼𝐼𝐼: 𝐻𝑒𝑎𝑟𝑡𝑠 𝑜𝑓 𝑀𝑒𝑛
Their dream came to an end, it seemed to only take an instant – their illusion shattered with the first chimes of war.

Yoko, now a spinster twenty-first summer, bid her dearest brother goodbye as he rode away to war. A regiment followed him, chins high and mouths set in a grim line. This would be his first true test as an heir, the first time he would see combat – death – the destruction brought by the never-ending struggles of the Daimyo for more land and power.

Nishi was torn to leave him, with Yoko standing at her door, tears falling like little crystals from her eyes – but his duty was to Hirohito, his little star, no matter how his love bid him remain with his heart.

He left her with a promise, a kiss to ivory cheek and a gold and ebony scale in memory – she sent him with a comb, a beautiful work of jade held close and treasured as no other.

War was horrible. The first Nishi was to see in this mortal realm. It was a horror unlike anything he expected – such violence and rage and hatred driving men’s hearts with a blackness he recoiled from. Ever he yearned to take his Divine form and lay them low with judgement – but they were not truly wicked men, and so he fought at his Prince’s side. Feared upon the battlefield for his speed and ruthless efficiency, wielding blade and tessen and wind in guise of a human, Nishi gravely partook of his duty.

He would not allow this growing blackness in mortal hearts to lay his Prince low.

The tide was turning, though battle never seemed far from dawn – and many an eve Nishi sat with Hirohito, as the boy trembled at the loss of another life, tears streaming down young cheeks in remorse even for his gravest enemies. It was this which Nishi was sent to protect, this kindness unlike the cynical hearts of his men could comprehend.

It felt as though the death would never cease, and it tainted the very air – a darkness that was more than mere human conflict a rising miasma on the air that reinforced Nishi’s resolve to his duty. He would protect Hirohito. He would see this vile darkness conquered if it meant his life – no matter how he wished to offer it to his beloved Yoko for as long as she would cherish it.

It was an oath made too soon.

Evil crept into the very home of the Daimyo, into the hearts of those dwelling there – an attack of cowardice in the form of shadowed assassins in the night.

Their triumph would have meant the end to it all, would have left Hirohito a fugitive in his own lands. So Nishi left his side, for but a night, for how could he leave his beloved to suffer death? The assassins met their end in the fire and gnashing teeth of a Kirin, rather than the blade of his mortal form.

His love was safe. His dream secured.

Then news came of the Prince’s death, a skirmish at dawn – a surprise attack by the enemy upon their encampment. A death Nishi should have prevented, were he not drawn away by his own heart.

Heart stopped in his chest when the little fluttering light flickered its last – the heart that beat next to his own for sixteen years a howling silence that rocked foundations. His duty failed. His oaths failed. All in the blink of an eye, all in but a moment that he looked away.

Nishi was senseless, frozen in the shock of the revelation which needed no words – heedless of the growing despair of the Daimyo. Nishi took the field again, a fury of despair – reaching out for that warm little flutter of life he’d taken for granted all these years, to find nothing. Enemies bowed and scrambled in fear of his wrath – a gale sweeping through the battlefield claiming life after life.

They spoke of him to their Daimyo as Zephyr, for none knew his name; a pale warrior bearing Daisho and tessen with inhuman power. And the Daimyo plotted, and fretted and made his own deal with one not-so-human. And all the while, the bereaved father of Hirohito fostered a callous hatred in his heart for this curse of a Divine beast set upon his family.

His daughter’s heart stolen away.

His son’s life claimed in negligence.

His ear opened to the whispered words of malice by a daemon perched so sneakily upon his shoulder.

𝐴𝑐𝑡 𝐼𝑉: 𝐵𝑒𝑡𝑟𝑎𝑦𝑎𝑙
Their long battle was over, for now, the would-be invaders retreating to lick wounds and strategize. Nishi too, followed the procession of soldiers to the only home he knew in this world of pervading death. He felt shaken still, hollow in ways he was unable to comprehend.

Yoko awaited him, eyes a teary mess she dabbed daintily with handkerchief tucked beneath sleeves. How he wished to embrace her, but he had duties to the Daimyo before all – forgiveness would never be asked, but he could offer up this empty victory.

The man was changed – wrinkle lines deepened by frowns, brow heavy and shadowed, grey at his temples Nishi couldn’t recall seeing before. He seemed but a shadow of himself, his eyes hard and narrowed with a heat the Kirin couldn’t comprehend.

Until he met Yoko beneath the first harvest moon, in the inner garden.

She sat stiffly, her flute idly twirled in fingers and eyes distant, glazed as she peered at the moon’s reflection within the pond. Silence lingered thick and heavy between them after he sat, watching and waiting for some sign of what plagued her so – but none came until dark, lustrous eyes turned to him, imploring him to believe her even as tears glossed them over.

’I love you. Forever my heart is with you.’ She choked out – despair breaking porcelain veneer and Nishi was left scrambling for a why when burning pain exploded all about him.

Chains and rope, hurled over form and lit with dark light that clawed at him like knives and the Kirin twisted with a roar of rage as Yoko dropped her face into her hands, sobbing a broken melody.

Confusion and rage and pain dominated his thoughts – until moonlight was snuffed by a heavy darkness and the damp smell of earth and stone and fire stole away the crisp autumn air.

They left him there, chains clapped about wrists and ankles and nape, locked in a cage draped heavy with talisman and sigil – the work only an Onmyoji could manage. But why? Why? Why? The question circled as he lingered there, shock encumbering system and a growing fear clouding reason.

They left him for days, or perhaps not so long – the darkness only pierced by inhuman eyes until torchlight brought their looming forms.

The Daimyo, come for vengeance for his son’s death, for his daughter’s stolen heart – for the ruin of dreams. A cold-hearted man in place of one once genial. A demon who grinned with every sizzling burn of the Onmyoji’s cursed chains tightening about him. They asked no questions and he gave them no pleasure of begging in their tongue – bowed his head to the punishment of his failure.

The guilt gnawing inside eased with every bite of pain, every tear of this pitiful mortal body and Nishi reveled in the absolution – hope still burning that this would indeed end, that he would be free of this. Soon. Soon. For the Daimyo was not a cruel man, surely he would not exact more than was due.

Days passed. Months. Nishi lost the flow of time, lost count of the pain – a haze lingering in the back of mind. Watched only for the flickering glow of shadowed forms with dulled golden eyes.

Then she came. A ray of light and hope renewed and battered body. His beloved Yoko, come with wan face and tearful eyes and promises in hushed whispers for his freedom.

Oh! But only if she were to join him, and her smile was brittle as she promised she would.

If only, if only – perhaps if they were faster, perhaps were he not so wounded, still weighed by chains neither had the power to remove.

Her father found them, swordsmen at his back and a black, bitter loathing twisting that once-familiar face in a visage that tore at Nishi’s heart. How could he hate him so? When he had done what he could to bear through that wrath? To accept the justice of his failed duty?

He stumbled.

The swordsmen caught up.

Yoko screamed and heart froze in chest as her father grabbed her, a fist full of beautiful ebony hair, a knife to her throat and a manic gleam in his eyes.

’You’ve taken enough from me, beast, you won’t have more.’ He howled, cursed and condemned the very creature who once brought such hope for glory to his household.

He plunged the blade into Yoko’s heart, tears on his face – and Nishi felt his own still with final breath that choked from blood-filled lungs before her body was dropped to the ground.

Perhaps it was that moment when the first spark of hate ignited in his heart, a hatred that would no know bounds – from himself to all of humanity, to the very Goddess who gave him life.

With a roar Nishi lunged, gleaming eyes and talons and scaled body coiled in wrath and fire toward these wicked, vicious monsters of men that took her. Took her away. His heart, his love, his sun…

Light and pain and screams that rent the air beneath bloodied talons and sundered bodies – Nishi hit the ground writhing in pain unlike any he could recall, despite the scars already littering body.

The Onmyoji stood at the Daimyo’s side, a baleful light in his eyes, a contrast to the moment of fear Nishi saw in the Daimyo.

The torment was worse now. His fate sealed. The torture unending as they lay every humiliation they could fathom upon his form – and the hatred ate him away, the desolation and the guilt and the betrayal and mire of darkness that stole away the light.

They sawed off his horns, mounted them upon the Daimyo’s helmet – a token of their besting even a Divine creature. His mane and tail shorn, scales peeled from body – and all the while those burning, horrible dark talisman’s held him fast; little more than a bird in a cage, a toy for their evil.

How he hated them. How he feared the unending torture – the days that bled together in a haze of pain.

The last flicker of hope burned out with the spell that carved Nihongo into his very flesh – locked him in the mortal form taken only for disguise – and the howl of utter despair rocked the very skies above this cursed place.

But the spell freed him. For such chains as could hold a creature of the Divine, could not contain the monster he was left. A heart blackened by desolation, a light that died with his beloved’s last breath.

Their cage could not hold – and the Onmyoji, fearful now that his own power had so betrayed him, went down first. A brutal spray of blood and gored flesh – the Daimyo next, but how he fled. Arrogance giving way to fear with the beast upon his heals, chains clanking behind him and fingers curled like claws hungering for his life.

He died, brutal and slow, with hands wrapped about his neck – but not before taking one last thing from Nishi – the sight he so needed, burned away with the careless fling of coals.

It was a fitting state, he mused, when the breath fled still figure, for one such as him to be locked in eternal darkness – for what beauty could there be left in this world of men?

The Costly and Illegal Snake Trade

Photograph by: Unknown (if you know please drop a comment)

Open any activism site and there are a slew of petitions and articles condemning the horrors of animal smuggling. It is a market that is ever growing and circulates an estimated $19 billion USD in revenue. However, among these, reptiles are rarely a primary focus. Especially with so much outcry against whale hunting, the ivory trade, and shark fishing dominating the activism stage. Of those you may find regarding the smuggle of reptiles, snakes make up an even smaller niche. Despite this, as little as 1 liter of snake venom can sale from $215,000 to $235,000 dollars. They are sold for skins, for venom, likely for pets in some cases, and for uses as aphrodisiacs.

Despite the consequences of live animal smuggling, and snake smuggling in particular, it isn’t a topic I had considered until recently. I interned with a petition organization, advocating animal welfare and safety. During that time, it never occurred to me to address this corner of the black market. In a way, it seemed almost counter-intuitive that anyone would not automatically acknowledge the illegality of keeping venomous snakes in their home, much less attempting to make a business from selling their venom. Not until I was talking with my boss about some of the crazy things one sees when working in real estate. He told me about a rented home he visited once, where the tenants were keeping rattle snakes in aquariums covered by slats of wood weighted by stones. Anyone with a survival instinct would consider how idiotic that is, not to mention illegal. However, he didn’t know. I didn’t realize they didn’t know until a colleague asked why ‘anyone would want a rattle snake for a pet.’ At the moment, I was shocked they didn’t know. Later, I kept thinking about it, took a hop-skip around the internet for articles – anything really – on snake smuggling. Most of the articles are more like case studies, hosted by science websites or organizations who keep tabs on the black market. Others were denouncing the idiocy of consumers who waste money on ‘snake oil.’ Not one petition, not one article attempting to take all these threads of information and piece them together into something informative for the general reader.

Snake smuggling may not be on the same scale as the ivory trade, the effects of this market can (are) even more catastrophic. Unlike ivory, snakes are live, they are sold and transported into foreign countries en masse. This poses a gargantuan danger to local ecosystems these snakes are likely to be introduced to. Between 1999 and 2015, 28 species of reptiles were seized 10 of which were species of snakes . Of those 28, scientists theorize that as many as 12 could settle and thrive in local ecosystem. Establishing a new prey animal, predator, or insect to an alien ecosystem can completely upend the balance of it. A dangerous thing in a time when so many of our indigenous animal populations are suffering mass extinctions. Snakes are generally introduced into these alien environments accidentally, or just irresponsibly. When the handler taking what they need finish with the snake, they often leave them to die. Abandon them to the wilds of wherever the handler lives. While this may kill the snake, there is also the chance the snake could establish itself. The risk grows higher and higher the more snakes are left, because it only takes that one to make it. To mingle and breed with local populations, and not only is there a new predator in the ecosystem, there is now a new strain entirely.

It may seem odd, that the snakes would be sold in mass numbers if their primary marketability lies with their venom. The answer to that is astoundingly simple. A snake handler by the name of Bill Haast measured the amount of time and number of milkings necessary to obtain 1 liter of coral snake venom. It must also be taken into account that not every milking will produce venom. While it wasn’t specified, I would assume he likely only noted successful milkings. So, 3 years and almost 70,000 milkings later, he obtained 1 liter of venom . Not exactly economic if one seeks to make oodles of money. So how do they overcome it? By having many, many of a breed of snake and milking all of them. Not only are the numbers these snakes are held in daunting, to imagine the danger they pose with every handling. Here is something that has the potential to kill a person with one bite, and they are handled every day. If we take into account how other smuggled animals are held, we can easily infer these snakes are held in equal levels of squalor. In a way, the danger posed by selling snake venom works against authorities trying to shut down smuggling rings. The sellers are small, tightly knit, and the network is expansive. Secretive. It makes it hard to find who is selling, and where that individual is obtaining their supply. Another difficulty is proving the venom came from a protected species. Especially in areas where it isn’t necessarily illegal to have a venomous snake, only certain species. However, thanks to a study conducted in 2012, scientists have finally discovered a way to isolate genes in snake venom specific to each venomous species.

So what’s going on with this venom? With the snakes? Facilities that study and synthesize anti-venom only use venom from certified – legal – facilities. They also don’t need a liter of venom at a time. Ironically enough, one of the biggest markets is drugs. There are a lot of problems with that statement, I understand. Why would a person eat venom that could kill them? Although, I would assume it is likely the same reasoning that urges them to inhale methamphetamine. The next problem, is that there is no evidence to say that snake venom will actually get the user ‘high’. In theory, on a biochemical level, the venom could potentially (could and potentially being key) cause some sort of altered state of mind, a ‘high’ even. The chances of that actually happening? Negligible. Still, the demand is high – especially in India  – and has become a popular ‘cocktail’ with liquor, cocaine, heroin, and hallucinogens such as molly. I think, what is the most frightening part of this craze, is that doctors don’t really know what this is, can, or will eventually do to human bodies.

Snakes have a pretty bad rep, especially in Western countries. However, this distaste in them shouldn’t be enough to deter focus on the dangers smuggling presents. If activism is going to be effective, it needs to be less biased toward the “cute and fuzzy”, and look to address the problems with as little bias as possible.

Sources

  1. Wildlife Command Crazy Prices on the Black Market; Snake Venom Sells at $215,000 Per Liter
    Niyi Aderibigbe. The Nerve. Dec 12, 2015.
    http://thenerveafrica.com/1817/wildlife-command-crazy-prices-on-the-black-market-snake-venom-sells-at-215000-per-litre-bear-bile-at-200000-per-pound-and-a-dead-tiger-costs-5000/
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    https://www.havoscope.com/snake-venom-for-sale
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  4. The Forensics of Snake Venom
    Douglas M. Main. New York Times – Green. February 10, 2012.
    https://green.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/02/10/the-forensics-of-snake-venom/?_r=0
  5. Species Identification from Dried Snake Venom
    Chandra S. Singh M.Sc., Ajay Gaur Ph.D., Ara Sreenivas M.Sc., Lalji Singh Ph.D. January 23, 2012.
    http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/wol1/doi/10.1111/j.1556-4029.2011.02049.x/full
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    Science News. Science Daily. November 17, 2016.
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  2. Breakfast With Cobra Venom
    Shiv Pujan Jha. Daily News & Analysis India. February 20, 2014
    http://www.dnaindia.com/india/report-breakfast-with-cobra-venom-to-get-a-high-1963543
  3. Snake Oil Merchants
    Janaki Lenin. The Hindu. November 2, 2012 & June 22, 2016.
    http://www.thehindu.com/news/cities/chennai/chen-metroplus/snake-oil-merchants/article4058507.ece
  4. Snakes Alive, the Venomous Vino that Comes with Added Bite
    Daily Mail Reporter. Daily Mail. January 20, 2011.
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Meditation Day 2

Sat later today to meditate, again not for very long but I tend to stop when I get fidgety. Sort of defeats the purpose if I can’t even sit still.

Definitely feel more relaxed still, despite the short time (and sleepy, honestly, but I attribute that more to the rain and being comfortable.)

Tried it with a vajrasattva mantra today, I think the chanting makes it easier to still the mind (a bit). I can focus on the voice and breathing and then sort of… drift. Until of course I remember something I need to do in 10 minutes, and start trying to micromanage my schedule again.

Ah well, progress.

~Jess

Meditation: Day 1

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I’ve started a lot of new endeavors this year, and all of them are geared toward self-improvement. As I have a tendency to charge headlong down a path, and push harder and harder to try and get there faster, more efficiently… I have a tendency to burn myself out. Chomping at the bit, so to speak, to succeed. 

So I’ve added meditating every day to this list of improvements. Mindfulness.

So I sat this morning, for, I don’t know? Five or ten minutes. Just… basking in the excitement, the nervousness, the impatience… the hunger for more, more, more… and it’s amazing, I think, just how much difference in tension and stress five minutes can make.

So, day one, journal-ed and marked down. I’ll probably keep dropping these, with maybe a comment on something I’ve learned to improve technique. Mostly as a way to keep myself going. Keep doing it every day, rather than letting myself cram on other things and push it back and push it back until it’s 11 PM and I’ve not meditated at all.

Mindfulness guys! It’s a stupendous thing.

Also to focus on:
Spend less
Eat Healthier
Waste Less
Be more environmentally aware
Exercise every day

~Jess

Friendships and Networking

 

Networking – that big scary word that comes up in any career that requires socializing. Although, if we think about it, networking is a pretty big part of every career now. Writers, artists, bloggers, doctors, lawyers, nurses, politicians, salesmen/women; everyone networks. Even if it’s just among immediate colleagues (although I would bet if we sat down and thought about it for a minute, that web extends well past our coworkers.) Still, it seems… daunting. And I suppose it is?

There’s the beginning question of where to draw the line with this ‘networking relationship’, do you draw a line? Do you even bother making a line, or does that inherently hinder the progress of the relationship? How do you approach an individual with the desire to network, to form this symbiotic co-existence on a professional level to assist, motivate, inspire, “promote” etc. each other? Is there an etiquette for that? Or do we just approach them like a potential friend, and move into the “hey be a business contact with me”? Does it depend on the situation? The person? How do you avoid coming off as disingenuous?

So many questions. So overwhelming, and if you’re anything like me, poor reader, and find comfort and confidence in social etiquette… it’s almost too much. Like treading water in a tempest in the middle of the Baltic Sea. Sayonara sanity? Yeah, that’s how it has felt. Overwhelming to the point of anxiety and frustration.

Still, it didn’t occur to me to actually Google networking until a few days ago. Mostly, I think, because I – like many others – assumed I knew how one networks. Maybe not the proper social parameters to approach an individual through… but I thought I knew. In a general sense, I did. However, I was thinking on much too large of a scale. Much too broadly. Big leaps rather than small steps.

I also sat through a livestream of the Buffini Success Tour yesterday afternoon, and listened to Darren Hardy speak. Brilliant. Brilliant speaker. Just, some of the things I learned in that hour and a half, some of the reinforcement, the reminders; they settled a lot of those worries (not entirely, I’m a neurotic wreck and nothing will entirely silence that.) But it helped. It gave me a point of reference to start, at least, looking for answers. How to form questions.

In another sense, this blog will (has already) helped solidify a few of those more ambiguous questions.

So last night, motivated by this speaker and having a more solid idea for taking action, I googled networking (-gasp-). What I immediately found was this glorious little article that broke networking down  into 8 steps.

Read It Here.

Start small, and build out. Common sense, right? Well, honestly, in the mad scramble of ‘get business’, ‘meet people’, ‘make money’, ‘learn’, ‘be successful’, etc. etc. etc. That sort of gets lost. You want to cast the net as broadly as possible, gather in those gems as quickly as possible, and like a gold miner, sift it through water. Timely. Tedious. Daunting. And not as likely to be successful as targeting specific individuals, connecting with them. Offering an exchange of knowledge, of professional companionship, of assistance and/or work; and building a few, firmly rooted contacts with people who will be important to your success. Whose success you can hopefully play an important role in; give and take.

Buffini said one should go into a relationship with the expectation of giving 100% and receiving nothing, because that is the only way you’re going to gain. To cultivate a relationship rather than looking to use someone to progress yourself.

Not even a revelation, but putting it down like that… it makes it less frightening, this beast they call networking.

So I made a list of friends, people I already have good relationships with, or who I know but lost touch with and travel different social circles than me. I figured, that increased my chances of meeting new people I don’t already know. I made another list of people I don’t know quite as well, but who I enjoyed talking to before and hope to sort of… solidify a relationship. Then I copied down a few people I don’t know very well, but who I respect and would be excited, honored  – a gushing mess, really, – to work with. People I want to learn from but also, I suppose, become a peer to.

So friends are a good place to start building. Your GP, people you see regularly all the time. Begin with them… express a desire to be contacts, to promote each others business.

ASK THEM FOR REFERRALS.

I think that is the most ridiculously shocking thing I’ve learned (but haven’t put properly into practice yet as i should be doing.) ASK FOR BUSINESS. It is not rude. It is not bad. One would consider, in hindsight, it’s an obvious thing to do? But something that, again, hadn’t occurred to me.

 

 

Another Morning Begins at Night

9:43 PM to be specific, and I really have no aim or purpose for this blog. I’ve read that is always a good place to start, with a topic. I have one of those ‘topic focused’ blogs, and I find my motivation for it waning (in the capricious way all sleep deprived ideas put into action at 4 AM have a tendency to do.) In any event, all of this is just really self-indulgent “stream of thought typed out into words”, journalistic sort of unloading of the swirling thoughts and shit I need to learn, do, acclimatize to…

And a small bit of hope that by veritably word-vomiting it out in a forum which may provide some form of entertainment or amusing insight for others, will help settle the thoughts. Provide clarity. An “It’s all out in words now, so let’s focus” type of situation.

Emotional dumping in nonsensical tangents, I suppose, as life affords us so few chances to do that without exposing ourselves unnecessarily to ridicule. Or the potential of ridicule. Funny how that happens. That people applaud the poignancy of emotion displayed in a book or on a screen, but deride it in their peers.

Anyway, to begin one such dump. I have been learning – so much, not too much, never too much – about networking, building a business; about success. Really, check out Darren Hardy, brilliant, brilliant man. However, it all feels a bit overwhelming honestly… how to network, who to network with, when to network; reaching out for referrals, for leads, for work, for training, but still need to make money. All this wanting hunger, it’s exciting to want things again. To aspire to great things. Even more so, to learn how to get there rather than just wanting to.

Still, I started real estate two months ago. It seems almost daunting to begin laying the groundwork for a local network and I’m honestly not sure how to even begin. I mean I do know, in theory, but most of that theory requires knowing people… and for the last five years I was terribly alienated from the people in my community. To the point that, outside of a scant few, I know hardly anyone. Now it comes down to how to use those few to expand the network… and how to do so in a way that doesn’t sound like I’m asking for handouts (because people still consider networking manipulative, even in the 21st century, idiotic as that sounds.) From there, converting that networking and “hey you” into leads. Into people who can/could bring in business

Videos, mail-outs and cards sound so much easier than trying to face-to-face meet. All hail the internet (and LinkedIn) for small mercies.

I’ve learned in this time that, while Facebook is sworn upon, it is not precisely ideal for business. Mostly, I would assume, for the sheer daunting amount of informality and uncouth displays of TMI.

Social media was, in many ways, I think, the slow-death of discretion.

One one side, real estate. On the other acting. I am new to both, but I can also see… how well they could play together. The overlap of learning one, and using that learning to benefit the other. Yet still, the sheer volume of information I’ve crammed into my skull since November is almost… disorienting. It needs an out, and I need a way to vent it out in the discombobulated mess it has become, so that it can be neatly ordered. Into files, into shelves.

Into a cohesive, foundation of a plan. and more determinate, precise actions to fulfill that plan.

That all sounds so clandestine, and maybe it is, maybe I should just really go to bed and give my grey-matter the rest it obviously desires. Rather than pushing through that haze of heavy-lidded-almost-sleep to finish this up and snicker at myself over a snack of strawberries.

I think I’ve run out of words anyway… for now?

~ Jess